Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Being a girl is great or difficult?

My views on , Being a girl is easy or difficult ?(a general view and  not going in very much of details just one aspect of being a girl..)

Many a times I feel its very difficult to be a girl and other times I think its so great to be a girl.

I feel its great because, girls are loved, cared a lot, they have extra privileges than men, they are handled delicately, they are matured at a very early age., they are patient, they are kind, they have a soft and  a brittle heart, they are capable of anything and everything, they build homes and take care of their families, they can be mothers- the best service one can ever give or get. girls can bear all the adversities those come in their lives yet they don't show anything on their face, they enjoy each moment in a childish way , yet be very matured.

At the same time I feel its unlucky or for that matter difficult to be a girl, because she has two families to live at, but she cannot be at both the families at the same time. One family is where she have spent her quarter Life , where she have learnt what she is today, The other being her in-laws, where she have to live the rest of her life.

Being recently married , I feel its really difficult to be a girl even with the extra privileges of being a girl, mostly because when I am with my husband I miss my mom and I want to be with her, and when I am with my mom , I miss my husband and I want to be with him.

I am always confused about this , as I cannot choose in between the two as both are equally important for me.

Hmmm I thank god that I am a girl who is blessed with an amazing husband and a sweet mom..

Preeti


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