Being a girl is great or difficult?

My views on , Being a girl is easy or difficult ?(a general view and  not going in very much of details just one aspect of being a girl..)

Many a times I feel its very difficult to be a girl and other times I think its so great to be a girl.

I feel its great because, girls are loved, cared a lot, they have extra privileges than men, they are handled delicately, they are matured at a very early age., they are patient, they are kind, they have a soft and  a brittle heart, they are capable of anything and everything, they build homes and take care of their families, they can be mothers- the best service one can ever give or get. girls can bear all the adversities those come in their lives yet they don't show anything on their face, they enjoy each moment in a childish way , yet be very matured.

At the same time I feel its unlucky or for that matter difficult to be a girl, because she has two families to live at, but she cannot be at both the families at the same time. One family is where she have spent her quarter Life , where she have learnt what she is today, The other being her in-laws, where she have to live the rest of her life.

Being recently married , I feel its really difficult to be a girl even with the extra privileges of being a girl, mostly because when I am with my husband I miss my mom and I want to be with her, and when I am with my mom , I miss my husband and I want to be with him.

I am always confused about this , as I cannot choose in between the two as both are equally important for me.

Hmmm I thank god that I am a girl who is blessed with an amazing husband and a sweet mom..

Preeti

Happy Birthday to Me!!!

Lots to write, but no time to structure my thoughts.. Life has been a real busy these days..

just a quick update..

Dec 13 2011, My first B'day after wedding was great.. Had a great time..

Ritesh gave me good surprise, He made me realize that I completed my quarter life i.e. 25 years of my life..
It was pleasant day . Ritz wished me a happy birthday every hour I love him for such little things yet so effective ones.. Got wishes from everybody I expected. Will upload the pics soon..

Got a surprise b'day cake from Nikki , my cousin .. overall a fantastic day..

So cheers!!! quarter life crises have started..

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.  ~Charles W. Eliot

Sanskar Bharati Rangoli

I completed my Sanskar Bharati Rongoli today with this Rangoli.. Feeling of Diwali started even before it..

Have a look...

At the first day , I felt , I will never be able to learn till this point, but i made it till here..

Poster Rangoli- Day 5

Today we did Ganeshji, and even gave it a traditional lok by drawing the border of Sanskar Bharati Rangoli..

This one is without Border

This one is with the Sanskar Bharati Rangoli Border.....

It feels satisfied when  I have a look of this .. I never thought I would be able to learn this, it seemed impossible to me, but after doing this I feel, everything is possible just a bit of effort is needed and a bit of interest is needed..

Will continue my remaining course in Dec due to lack of time....

Poster Rangoli- Day 4

With Diwali approaching, we had a theme of Diwali with a Diya burning ..

It was small but sweet and elegant .. 

                                                     This is the poster prepared by my tutor

This is prepared by me.......

This is the variation ..We mixed Poster Rangoli and Sanskar Bharati Rangoli to give a traditional to it..

Looking at the burning flame, One thing which comes to my mind is, keep the flame of learning always burning... Dont satisfy for less.. Learn, Learn and learn.....

Looking forward for more posters day after tomorrow..

P.S : All inspired to learn the Rangoli from Ritesh.. 

Poster Rangoli : Day 3

After a day's gap, it was difficult to concentrate, but anyhow managed to complete my 3rd poster which was a combination of blue shades..

Blue being my fav color, I liked this poster a lot..

Initially felt its not my piece of cake, but at the end it was real satisfying (even if it was having a lot of flaws)..

Have a look...

Poster by my tutor,

 Poster by me:

My shade have come out a bit lighter than hers but still its feels great as I completed it as it seemed an impossible job for me..